Stop Guilt Weighing you down

Five Tips for Dealing with Guilt

It’s not always easy to get over feelings of guilt, especially if they’re based on something from your past that you can’t change. However, there are things you can do to help deal with guilt and move on. Read on for information about what guilt is, and five tips about how to deal with guilt and move on with your life.

So, what is guilt?

Guilt is a feeling of responsibility or remorse for something you have done, even if it was not your intention. Guilt can be helpful in that it motivates you to make amends or change your behaviour in the future.

However, guilt can also be harmful if it’s based on false assumptions or leads to self-blame. It’s important to be able to recognize when your guilt is helpful and when it’s not in order to deal with it in a healthy way.

Why do we feel guilty?

There are a number of reasons why we might feel guilty. We might feel guilty because we’ve actually done something wrong, or we might feel guilty because we think we could have done something to prevent a bad outcome.

Guilt can also be caused by comparing ourselves to others, feeling like we don’t measure up, or feeling like we’re not doing enough. If we’re not able to manage our guilt in a healthy way, it can lead to feelings of anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem.

The different types of guilt

There are two main types of guilt: productive and unproductive. Productive guilt is the type of guilt that motivates you to make a change in your behaviour. For example, if you feel guilty after eating an unhealthy meal, that guilt might motivate you to eat healthier in the future.

Unproductive guilt is the type of guilt that doesn’t serve any purpose and only leads to negative emotions. For example, if you feel guilty about something from your past that you can’t change, that guilt is unproductive and can only hold you back.

If not managed in a healthy way, guilt can lead to a number of negative emotions and consequences. These can include anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and difficulty moving on from the past.

Additionally, unproductive guilt can be damaging to our relationships. If we’re constantly feeling guilty about things we can’t control, we might start to withdraw from others and become isolated. It’s important to be aware of the effects of guilt so that we can manage it in a way that is healthy for us.

Five Tips for dealing with Guilt

If you’re feeling guilty, there are a few things you can do to help ease the feeling. First, try to understand why you’re feeling guilty. If your guilt is based on something you actually did wrong, then there might be steps you can take to make amends.

Talk To Someone

If you have hurt someone, one way to start getting over guilt is to talk to the person you hurt. If you can’t face them directly, write a letter expressing your remorse. Sometimes, just saying out loud what you did and how sorry you are can help you to start forgiving yourself.

If you made a mistake, try to learn from it and make sure not to repeat the same behaviour in the future. If you’re still struggling to forgive yourself, remind yourself that everyone makes mistakes and that you are worthy of forgiveness.

You might also try talking to a therapist or counsellor about your feelings of guilt. They can help you to understand why you feel guilty and offer guidance on how to move forward.

One of the best things you can do when struggling with guilt is to talk to someone you trust. First, try to talk to someone about what’s bothering you. This can be a friend, family member, therapist, or anyone else you trust.

Talking about your feelings can help you understand them better and start to work through them.

It might take some time, but eventually, you’ll be able to let go of your guilt and move on with your life.


Writing down your thoughts can help you process your emotions.

If you’re struggling with guilt, one way to help ease the feeling is to journal about it. Writing down your thoughts and feelings can help you make sense of them and start to work through them. You might find it helpful to write about what happened, why you’re feeling guilty, and how you want to deal with the guilt.

Additionally, journaling can be a form of self-care. It can help you release some of the pent-up emotion you’re feeling and provide a space for you to express yourself freely. If you’re not sure where to start, try checking out some journal prompts online or in books.

Here is a link to download a free tip sheet about Journalling

Focusing on the present

One way to deal with guilt is to focus on the present. This can be difficult if your guilt is based on something from your past, but it’s important to remember that you can’t change the past. What you can do is control how you react to it and what you do going forward. Accept that you made a mistake, learn from it, and try to do better in the future.

Focus on the positive things in your life.

There are likely many things you’re doing well, so try to focus on those as well. By focusing on the present, you can start to let go of the guilt and move on with your life.

Being gentle with yourself

Guilt is a complex and difficult emotion to deal with. It’s important to be gentle with yourself as you’re working through it. This means being patient, accepting that there will be setbacks, and knowing that it takes time to heal.

It’s important to take care of yourself both physically and emotionally. This might include things like exercise, relaxation, and healthy eating. By taking care of yourself, you can start to ease the guilt and make progress in healing.


Guilt is a complex emotion, but it is possible to make peace with your past and let go of the guilt. If you’re struggling with guilt or shame from something in your past, know that you’re not alone.

There are things you can do to help ease these feelings and start to move on. Talk to someone you trust, journal about your thoughts and feelings, and focus on the present. Additionally, be gentle with yourself as you’re working through the guilt. It’s a process, but by taking care of yourself and seeking help when needed, you can start to heal.

If you find these strategies don’t work well enough to deal with your guilt, hypnotherapy can help with deeper issues.

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